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Tony Robbins – Stop Lying To Yourself

Published on January 28, 2011 by in Tony Robbins

When I walk my dogs I usually listen to either Tony Robbins or Think and Grow Rich on my ipod. Today Tony was talking about how people will lie to themselves and tell themselves everything is ok when it really, isn’t until they get to the point where they HAVE to do something.

For instance, maybe you’ve gained a few pounds. You don’t really worry about it and tell yourself it isn’t a big deal. You make excuses about how you’ve just been too tired to exercise lately, but you’ll start tomorrow. Before you know it, you’ve gained 20 pounds, your clothes don’t fit, you’re having trouble exercising, and you can feel the love handles around your hips. Suddenly, you’re freaking out. You have to do something. Finally you take action and lose some weight. Then you get comfortable again and maybe slow down with the workouts. Thus a vicious cycle keeps going.

So how do you stop things like this from happening? You stop lying to yourself. You need to be honest and tell yourself it isn’t ok to gain a few pounds, or overspend, or put things off. You need to stop telling yourself it isn’t a big deal or whatever other stories you tell yourself to make them ok.

If there is something you want to do, you need to do something about it right away. Tomorrow will never come. Even if it is something for only 20 minutes, at least you did something.


Things I’m happy about today:

Went on a picnic with my grandparents, got a call for a phone interview for a major airline, got a cool marketing idea, started a new computer class, the weather was perfect, got to sleep in


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Self Improvement Books – My Favorite Casual Reading



Self improvement books are my favorite to read when I’m bored, feeling a little down, or just don’t know what to do with myself. There have been many times I have lost myself in a good self-improvement book at the local book store. There are so many topics to choose from… be happy, get motivated, do more, enjoy more, think positive, get more out of life, make more money, increase your self-esteem, be more confident, make more friends, be more successful, have a happy relationship… the list goes on and on.

I find myself turning more and more to the internet now, but I still go to the bookstore a few times a month for something to do. One website I found that is really awesome is Simpleology. It gives you a really cool program that helps you focus, increase productivity, set goals, create milestones, and a whole lot more. In addition, it has a bunch of courses that are easy to follow and to implement. There are topics on everything from how to become a best-selling author, how to make money, how to get what you want, and how to increase  energy. Some of the tools are free. You can check out Simpleology by clicking here.

Some of my other favorite books include: Think and Grow Rich, Richest Man in BabylonThe Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment, Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking, and How To Win Friends and Influence People.

What are your favorite self improvement books?


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How to be Happy… Step #2

So now you are grateful and appreciative of everything you do have… maybe you’re already feeling a little bit happier… what’s the next step on how to be happy?

#2- Move!

Go outside and do something. It doesn’t matter if you just take a leisurely walk around your neighborhood, go for a jog, ride a bike, climb a mountain, or just sit in the park. Go outside and notice the grass, the feeling of the sun on your skin, the sound of the birds, children playing, the smell of the flowers, butterflies flying, the trees blowing in the wind. Just take in all the beauty of nature that surrounds us every single day.

You may think this sounds silly, but the world is an amazingly beautiful place if you just take the time to notice. People get so busy with work, school, kids, life, etc. that they hardly notice. Just take 5 or 10 minutes in the morning or during your lunch break to go out and get some air. If there is a park near your home, even better.

You will be amazed at what 15 minutes of walking around and noticing the world around you can do to help you be happy.

Things I’m happy about today:

Cashed a check, sent a friend a birthday card, made a new friend, get to go to dinner with my grandparents tonight, it’s beautiful outside today : D


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How To Be Happy… Step #1

Are you sitting there feeling miserable? Maybe you feel like you have no friends in the world, you hate where you live, your job sucks, you don’t have enough money to do anything…? Or maybe you are like me and you’re just trying to improve your happiness. So how in the world do you figure out how to be happy?

I’m sure you’ve heard this before, but happiness is all in your head. You’re as happy as you decide to be. Even if you’re in the first situation, you can find things to appreciate about your life.

Are you healthy? Do you have electricity? Do you have access to fresh water and food? Do you have a computer? Do you have legs and arms? Can you see? Can you hear? There are people who wish they could be as fortunate.

There are so many things that everyone takes for granted that if they just thought about how much they actually have, they would realize they are quite rich. That is one of the things I always notice when I travel, how much better our quality of living is in the US but how happy people seem in the other country. People don’t need things to be happy.

So step #1 to be happy…?

Appreciate everything you do have. You can always find ways to make your life better. There will always be something you feel you’re missing if that is what you think about. Stop thinking about what you don’t have and start realizing how abundant you really are.

Every morning when you wake up and right before you go to bed at night, think of 5 things that you are grateful for. Instead of just thinking in your head those things, feel the feeling in your heart of being grateful. It is a wonderful feeling and will help you be happy.


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New year, new direction…

Published on January 25, 2011 by in General

For the past 6 months or so, I’ve been doing a lot of soul searching. I want to know what my purpose in life is. Everywhere you look you see motivational banners, artwork, bumper stickers, quotes, etc. about living your dream, being who you want to be, living with purpose, doing what you love, and all kinds of other stuff along those lines. It is pretty frustrating when you want to do all of those things but you have no idea how to even start.

So what to do… the thing is, I know what I love to do. I love to help people. I love to teach. I love kids and animals. I love to read self-help books. I love learning. When I was younger, I always had a plan. Up until the day I quit teaching I knew exactly what I wanted to do with my life. I loved teaching. I love to travel. So how do I find a job that lets me travel and teach?

Well I could teach English in another country… but I have a family that I love very much and I can’t imagine not being able to see them whenever I want. I could be a traveling speaker… which I would actually love to do, but I don’t know what to speak on. I could have an online store or sell affiliate products online and make tons of money and do whatever I want, just like Tim Ferris and Frank Kern and Amish Shah and all the other cool kids I want to be like… this seems like the best option. This is what I have been wanting to do for the last 3 years.

So what is stopping me? Well, you need to become an expert on something. That something is where I keep getting stuck. Then all of a sudden it dawned on me today that I really want to help people be happy. I want to help them achieve their dreams. I want to give them all of the tools they need to be happy, healthy, all-around good people.

So what makes me an expert on how to be a good person? Well, I guess it is just the fact that I consider myself to be a good person. I take care of my family, I try to take care of the planet in the best ways I know how, I see the best in other people, I love everyone and forgive people, I don’t take things too personally, I try and see things from other people’s perspectives, I appreciate everything, I don’t say bad things about people, I don’t get mad very easily, I try not to judge, and I always do the thing that seems the most right for the most people. Of course I’m not perfect, but I am happy. I want other people to be happy, too.

So what is the point of this very long blog about me and my life you ask? Well I am going to re-purpose this blog into something meaningful, something closer to my heart. I am going to make this blog a place for people to go to find ways to be happy, to be a better person, to help the world and make it better. I’m going to share what I’ve learned and what I continue to learn.


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Twitter Updates for 2010-08-30

Published on August 30, 2010 by in General
  • Are you a small business looking for new ways to advertise? Let me help… I am a social media manager who can get you results fast… #

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Twitter Updates for 2010-07-30

Published on July 30, 2010 by in General

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Don’t stop believing! Analog live band karaoke

Published on July 30, 2010 by in Uncategorized

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Analog bar live band karaoke

Published on July 29, 2010 by in Uncategorized

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Twitter Updates for 2010-07-23

Published on July 23, 2010 by in General

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